Have you ever felt like you’re just going through the motions of life—checking the boxes, following the rules, and doing all the “right” things—but something still feels... off?

Maybe you’ve spent years building a life that looks good on paper, yet there’s a small voice inside you whispering, There’s more for you than this.

If that resonates, you’re not alone. Many women, especially mothers, feel a disconnect between their external lives and their deeper, inner selves. The good news? That inner whisper is your soul nudging you toward your purpose.

But what is soul purpose, and how do you discover yours?

In this guide, I’ll walk you through what soul purpose really means, why it’s worth pursuing, and the exact steps to start uncovering yours today.

What is Soul Purpose?

Soul purpose isn’t a job title, a role, or something you “achieve.” It’s the essence of who you are and the unique way you’re meant to show up in the world. It’s about aligning your energy, passions, and actions with your authentic self.

Your purpose isn’t about what you do; it’s about who you are while you’re doing it. Whether you’re raising children, starting a business, or making art, your purpose is the thread that ties everything together with meaning.

Common Myths About Soul Purpose

Before diving into how to find your purpose, let’s clear up a few misconceptions that might be holding you back:

Myth 1: Your purpose is a single, fixed destination.

Many people think purpose is a one-and-done discovery, like finding a treasure map. But the truth is, purpose evolves. It’s more like a journey than a destination.

Myth 2: You need to have it all figured out right away.

Soul purpose unfolds in layers. You don’t need all the answers to take the first step.

Myth 3: Purpose has to be grand or world-changing.

Your purpose doesn’t have to involve starting a nonprofit or curing a disease. Sometimes, it’s about how you show up in everyday moments—with love, authenticity, and presence.

Why You Feel Disconnected from Your Purpose

Feeling out of alignment with your purpose often stems from societal conditioning. Many women are taught to prioritize others' needs over their own, leading to burnout, self-doubt, and a sense of “missing something.”

You might feel stuck because:

• You’re overwhelmed by responsibilities and don’t know where to start.

• Fear of failure or judgment is holding you back.

• You’ve been so focused on “doing” that you’ve lost touch with who you are.

Sound familiar? These are all signs that it’s time to pause and reconnect with yourself.

The Benefits of Living Aligned with Your Purpose

When you align with your soul purpose, everything starts to feel lighter and more intentional.

Emotional Benefits

• You feel more at peace and less overwhelmed.

• Confidence grows as you trust yourself more.

Practical Benefits

• Decision-making becomes easier because you’re clear on your values.

• You start attracting opportunities that align with your desires.

Spiritual Benefits

• You feel connected to something greater than yourself.

• Life feels more meaningful and fulfilling.

How to Discover Your Soul Purpose: A Step-by-Step Guide

Step 1: Connect with Your Authentic Self

Reflect on the moments when you felt most alive. What lights you up? What did you love as a child before the world told you who to be?

Journaling Prompts:

• What activities make time fly for me?

• What did I dream about doing when I was younger?

Dive deeper into this with the reflective exercises in my Finding Your Purpose Bundle.

Step 2: Uncover Limiting Beliefs

Limiting beliefs are the invisible walls keeping you from fully stepping into your purpose. Maybe you think, I’m too busy, or It’s selfish to pursue my dreams.

Tip:
Start noticing the stories you tell yourself. Challenge them with evidence to the contrary.

Step 3: Listen to Your Intuition

Your intuition is a powerful guide to your purpose. Spend time in stillness—whether through meditation, a walk in nature, or journaling—and listen to what comes up.

Step 4: Discover Your Unique Blueprint

Understanding your Human Design chart can be a game-changer in aligning with your purpose. Your design shows how your energy flows and where you’re naturally gifted.

Explore your Human Design Type, Strategy, and Authority in my Purpose by Design Guide.

Step 5: Take Aligned Action

Purpose isn’t something you passively wait to discover—it’s something you co-create. Start taking small, intentional steps in the direction that feels right.

Examples:

• Saying yes to opportunities that excite you.

• Saying no to things that drain you.

Step 6: Create Space for Clarity

It’s hard to connect with your purpose when your life is cluttered. Simplify your schedule and create room for what matters.

Tip:
Prioritize rest, reflection, and activities that energize you.

For personalized guidance on creating clarity, book a Purpose Accelerator Session.

Signs You’re Living Your Soul Purpose

When you’re aligned with your purpose, you’ll notice:

• A deeper sense of peace and fulfillment.

• Making decisions that feel good instead of just “right.”

• Feeling more connected to yourself and others.

What to Do When You Feel Stuck

Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’re failing—it’s part of the process. Use it as an opportunity to reflect and adjust.

Journaling Prompts:

• What’s one small action I can take today to feel more aligned?

• What’s been calling to me that I’ve been ignoring?

If you’re unsure where to start, schedule a Purpose Accelerator Session for clarity and direction.

Start Your Purpose Journey Today

Discovering your soul purpose is about more than checking a box or achieving a goal—it’s about reconnecting with who you are and what lights you up.

You don’t have to figure it out alone. Download the Finding Your Purpose Bundle for self-guided tools and exercises, or book a Purpose Accelerator Session to create a clear path forward.

Because you deserve to live a life that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely you.